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    So sorry to read this Cassandria. I hope you are putting in a complaint when you feel strong enough and have all this behind you. Such a dreadful ordeal. The lack of care and empathy being shown to women in these procedures is astounding. But what makes it worse is how they withhold information about likelihood of pain and deny access to appropriate anaesthetic and blatantly LIE TO US. So professionally unethical! If you haven't already have a look at the Campaign Against Painful Hysteroscopy Facebook and webpage (@HysteroscopyA on twitter ) and Care Opinion. CAPH have a pain survey already completed by over 5000 women who have had dreadful experiences. You are far from alone. Hope you feel better very soon. X
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    So sorry to hear this EmilyGee. A dreadful experience. The Campaign Against Painful Hysteroscopy is working really hard to get this appalling state of affairs changed and also supporting women who've been through and been harmed by this procedure. If you would like to contact us, we have a public facebook page and also a private one. The webpage is https://www.hysteroscopyaction.org.uk/ https://www.facebook.com/HysteroscopyA
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    Awful isn't it? Sorry you've suffered too. Evidently we're all so keen to get back to our childcare duties, we don't want anaesthetic. There is a ridiculous survey by the British Society for Gynaecological Endoscopy which claims that over 90% of women having this procedure would have it the same way if they needed it again, even the ones experiencing severe pain. There were no alternatives offered on the questionnaire. Just laughable and this is now being used as the standard for benchmarking! We just have to keep on making a noise to bring about change. Have you seen the Campaign for Painful Hysteroscopy facebook page and website? (https://www.hysteroscopyaction.org.uk/) They are also very active on Twitter @HysteroscopyA - do join in! They have done some incredible work collecting data etc., and have already brought about changes in patient info leaflets. A few years ago, pain wasn't acknowledged at all!
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    Good to hear you didn't have any problems, Rainyflower - most women are ok with the procedure and it sounds as if you had a good dr for yours. Unfortunately 1 in 3 women experience severe pain in outpatient hysteroscopy procedures, and have procedures that last a lot longer than 2 minutes. Mine was at least 20 minutes, during which time I experienced excruciating pain, felt myself passing out as they tried to get through my cervix ( I was 20 yrs post menopause), the distension fluid for the biopsy procedure to take place felt like a red hot poker being applied to my uterus and up to my ovaries. I wasn't advised to take any painkillers beforehand, and wasn't offered a local anaesthetic into the cervix until it was clear I was in agony. No time was allowed for this to have any effect before they continued. I've never experienced pain like it and I'm not alone with saying it was worse than childbirth. Many women are left with PTSD after this barbaric treatment, often leaving women with wrecked sex lives and relationships. This is the only endoscopy procedure where sedation with analgesia and/or general anaesthetic isn't offered as a matter of course. Strangely, its also the only one that is a woman only procedure. It would never happen to a man!
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    Carrie, my outpatient procedure failed because of the severe pain - I had a polyp they couldn't remove although they did manage to obtain enough tissue for a biopsy. I had another procedure a short time afterwards under a general anaesthetic - the experience couldn't have been more different. No pain, knew nothing about it, and minimal pain for a short time afterwards. The gynaecologist I saw was amazed the outpatient procedure had occurred - lovely team of people who looked after me, chat with anaesthetist beforehand. Just writing this, in case it is helpful for you or other women in the same position.
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    Very well summarised, Katharine. As far as I can see from reading peoples ongoing horror stories about outpatient hysteroscopy, nothing has changed in the way women are tortured and gaslighted since I had my excruciatingly painful procedure about 9 years ago. What has changed is the RCOG and BSGE have acknowledged that the procedure is severely painful for 1 in 3 women and that women should be told this and offered GA if that's their preference. What hasn't changed is the culture of lying to women about the pain, ignoring the updated guidelines and therefore denying women their rights and their ability to give informed consent, not using RCOG patient information (presumably because they want to push women through on the OPH conveyor belt), and the unfeeling attitude of the medical staff who continue with procedures even when women are fainting, screaming, shouting, asking them to stop. "Nearly over" or "just a few seconds more" is not acceptable when a woman has endured more than enough pain already! They should hang their heads in shame! Surely the Women's Health Strategy can't ignore this horrendous state of affairs!
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    Hasn't this government just removed our human rights and access to the European Court of Human Rights?
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    I am so sorry and angry to read about your experience. It is unbelievable that they are carrying out what is actually surgery in outpatients without anaesthetic in 2022, when pain relief is available. I hope you feel better very soon, although I doubt you will be able to forget this barbarity any time soon! There are RCOG and BSGE guidelines for this procedure and this hospital didn't follow them, but that is sadly the case for so many women all over UK. Although you were asked to sign a consent form, this can't possibly be informed consent if you weren't made aware that the procedure can be painful for at least 33% of women and advised that you had other options, ie. having the procedure under GA. https://www.rcog.org.uk/for-the-public/browse-all-patient-information-leaflets/outpatient-hysteroscopy/ I'm a member of the private part of support/campaigning group Campaign Against Painful Hysteroscopy. If you think it would be helpful and would like to join us (you will find many who have had similar experiences to you) please send a FB friend request to me Elaine Falkner (holding the black and white cat) and I can invite you to join our private group. Its a very friendly and supportive group. We have members who can advise regarding complaining if that is something you would like to do, many have written to their MPs, and you can follow us on Twitter @HysteroscopyA . You can also post your "story" on https://www.careopinion.org.uk/. This is an account regarding hysteroscopy at Salford Royal from 5 years ago - clearly nothing has changed in that time: https://www.careopinion.org.uk/319772 . Please look after yourself and give yourself time to recover. xx
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    So sorry to hear you had this experience Sadie. Hope you are ok now.
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    Hi Martina Bit late in the day to respond but I've only just seen your post, I hope all is progressing well for you and you don't have to wait too long if you decide to have the procedure under GA. Very best wishes, E x
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    Missy, this is awful - so sorry to hear this. Very pleased to hear you are talking to your GP. Have you told them about the pain you are in? There are a lot of women who have undergone this procedure and had it fail because of pain, and have then gone on to have the procedure under GA. This should be an option for you as it is in the RCOG and BSGE guidelines. The Campaign Against Painful Hysteroscopy has a private group where we can discuss our experiences and support each other. If you would like to join please send a facebook request to Elaine Falkner (I'm the one holding the black and white cat) and I can then invite you to join the group. Best wishes - I hope the next stage is better for you. xx
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    So sorry to hear this A_P. It's appalling how women are treated with this procedure without adequate or any anaesthetic. Unfortunately you are not the only one to be left with issues requiring counselling or other therapy for PTSD. I hope you can recover from this ordeal very soon. The Campaign Against Painful Hysteroscopy has an private group where we can discuss our experiences and support each other. If you would like to join please send a facebook request to Elaine Falkner (I'm the one holding the black and white cat) and I can then invite you to join the group. It would be helpful if you could message me your name as well if you would like to join us. Best wishes E
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    Hi Cake So, so pleased to hear you've had a textbook experience of hysteroscopy. It's good to hear that your hospital is following the RCOG guidelines to the letter. Its shocking how many aren't doing this and persuading women to go with outpatient procedures by telling them they'll have to wait a long time for other options, or worse not even telling them there are alternatives. The Campaign Against Painful Hysteroscopy is working with RCOG endeavouring to bring about change so all women are treated as they should be, and not as NHS money and the outdated ideas of gynaecologists regarding pain in hysteroscopy are dictating. You can find CAPH on twitter @HysteroscopyA. Please support if you can. Hope the procedure has good outcomes for you. All the best, Ellie
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    Sorry Cathryn, I forgot to say I'm the one holding a black and white cat. Elaine
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    Hello Cathryn, Sorry to hear you had a a bad experience last month. It not good enough is it? If you Google Hysteroscopy on Hansard all Lyn Brown's debate speeches will come up in date order. Regarding making a complaint, if you would like to join the Campaign Against Painful Hysteroscopy's private group, we have several members who have made complaints and could give some pointers on this. If you'd like to join please send me, Elaine Falkner a Facebook friend request, and I can invite you to join the closed hysteroscopy group. Best wishes Elaine
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