I am so sorry to hear of the experience you have had. The complaints procedure in the NHS is fundamentally flawed and is in desperate need of change.
From my own experiences I have started a national campaign to do just that. The campaign group has grown rapidly - now over 220 individual members - and increasing daily.
I will be publishing more details on the campaign within this Hub in the coming days - but having seen your post - wanted to reach out at the first opportunity.
Please take a look at our website:
www.keepingthenhshonest.co.uk
and it should give you a good perspective of what we are about.
Campaign Leaflet 001.pdf